Masiku ano, pali njira zambiri zothandizira okalamba m'deralo, monga mkazi, bwenzi latsopano, ana, achibale, anamwino, mabungwe, anthu, ndi zina zotero. Koma kwenikweni, muyenera kudzidalira nokha!
Ngati nthawi zonse mumadalira ena kuti mupume pantchito, simungamve kukhala otetezeka. Chifukwa kaya ndi ana anu, achibale, kapena mabwenzi anu, iwo sadzakhala nanu nthawi zonse. Mukakhala ndi zovuta, siziwoneka nthawi iliyonse komanso kulikonse kuti zikuthandizeni kuthana nazo.
Ndipotu, aliyense ndi wodziimira payekha ndipo ali ndi moyo wake woti azikhalamo. Simungapemphe ena kuti azidalira inu nthawi zonse, ndipo ena sangathe kudziyika okha mu nsapato zanu kuti akuthandizeni.
Zakale, takalamba kale! Kungoti tili ndi thanzi labwino ndipo tili ndi maganizo abwino tsopano. Kodi tingayembekezere ndani tikadzakalamba? Iyenera kukambidwa m'magawo angapo.
Gawo loyamba: zaka 60-70
Mukapuma pantchito, mukakhala ndi zaka makumi asanu ndi limodzi mpaka makumi asanu ndi awiri, thanzi lanu lidzakhala labwino, ndipo mikhalidwe yanu ingalole. Idyani pang'ono ngati mukufuna, valani pang'ono ngati mukufuna, ndipo sewerani pang'ono ngati mukufuna.
Lekani kuuma mtima, masiku anu awerengeka, tengerani mwayi. Sungani ndalama, sungani nyumbayo, ndipo konzekerani njira zanu zothawira.
Gawo lachiwiri: palibe matenda atatha zaka 70
Pambuyo pa zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri, mulibe masoka, ndipo mukhoza kudzisamalira nokha. Ili si vuto lalikulu, koma muyenera kudziwa kuti ndinu okalamba. Pang’ono ndi pang’ono, mphamvu zanu zakuthupi zidzatha, ndipo zochita zanu zidzaipiraipira. Mukadya, Yendani pang'onopang'ono kuti musatsamwidwe, kugwa. Lekani kukhala wamakani ndi kudzisamalira nokha!
Ena amasamalira ngakhale mbadwo wachitatu kwa moyo wawo wonse. Yakwana nthawi yoti mukhale odzikonda ndikudzisamalira nokha. Khalani omasuka pa chilichonse, thandizani kuyeretsa, ndikukhala wathanzi kwa nthawi yayitali momwe mungathere. Dzipatseni nthawi yochuluka momwe mungathere kuti mukhale paokha. Kudzakhala kosavuta kukhala ndi moyo popanda kupempha thandizo.
Gawo lachitatu: kudwala pambuyo pa zaka 70
Iyi ndi nthawi yotsiriza ya moyo ndipo palibe choti muwope. Ngati mwakonzekeratu, simudzakhala achisoni kwambiri.
Lowani m’nyumba yosungira anthu okalamba kapena kugwiritsa ntchito munthu wina kusamalira okalamba kunyumba. Padzakhala nthawi zonse njira yochitira izo mwa kuthekera kwanu komanso momwe mukuyenera. Mfundo yake ndi yakuti musamalemetse ana anu kapena kuwalemetsa kwambiri m’maganizo, m’ntchito zapakhomo, ndi m’zachuma.
Gawo lachinayi: gawo lomaliza la moyo
Malingaliro anu akakhala bwino, thupi lanu likudwala matenda osachiritsika, ndipo moyo wanu umakhala wosauka kwambiri, muyenera kulimba mtima kukumana ndi imfa ndipo motsimikiza mtima simukufuna kuti achibale anu akupulumutseninso, ndipo simukufuna kuti achibale ndi abwenzi zinyalala zosafunikira.
Pamenepa tikuona, kodi anthu amayang’ana kwa ndani akakalamba? Mwiniwake, nokha, nokha.
Monga mwambi umati, "Ngati muli ndi kasamalidwe ka ndalama, simudzakhala osauka, ngati muli ndi ndondomeko, simudzakhala chipwirikiti, ndipo ngati mwakonzekera, simudzakhala otanganidwa." Monga gulu lankhondo losungira okalamba, kodi ndife okonzeka? Malinga ngati mukonzekeratu pasadakhale, simudzadera nkhaŵa za moyo wanu waukalamba m’tsogolo.
Tiyenera kudzidalira tokha kuti tichirikize ukalamba wathu ndi kunena mofuula kuti: “Ndili ndi mawu omalizira muukalamba wanga!
Nthawi yotumiza: Mar-12-2024
