Masiku ano, pali njira zambiri zothandizira okalamba m'dera, monga mkazi, mnzanu watsopano, ana, achibale, alezi, mabungwe, anthu, ndi zina zotero. Koma kwenikweni, muyenera kudzidalira nokha kuti mudzisamalire nokha!
Ngati nthawi zonse mumadalira ena pa nthawi yanu yopuma pantchito, simudzamva kuti ndinu otetezeka. Chifukwa kaya ndi ana anu, achibale anu, kapena anzanu, sadzakhala nanu nthawi zonse. Mukakhala ndi mavuto, sadzabwera nthawi iliyonse komanso kulikonse kuti akuthandizeni kuthetsa mavutowo.
Ndipotu, aliyense ndi munthu wodziyimira pawokha ndipo ali ndi moyo wake woti akhalemo. Simungapemphe ena kuti azidalira inu nthawi zonse, ndipo ena sangadziike okha m'malo mwanu kuti akuthandizeni.
Takalamba kale! Kungoti tili ndi thanzi labwino ndipo tili ndi maganizo abwino tsopano. Kodi tingayembekezere ndani tikakalamba? Izi ziyenera kukambidwa m'magawo angapo.
Gawo loyamba: zaka 60-70
Mukapuma pantchito, mukakwanitsa zaka makumi asanu ndi limodzi mpaka makumi asanu ndi awiri, thanzi lanu lidzakhala labwino, ndipo thanzi lanu likhoza kulola. Idyani pang'ono ngati mukufuna, valani pang'ono ngati mukufuna, ndipo sewerani pang'ono ngati mukufuna.
Siyani kudzivutitsa, masiku anu atha, gwiritsani ntchito mwayi umenewu. Sungani ndalama, sungani nyumbayo, ndipo konzani njira zanu zothawira.
Gawo lachiwiri: palibe matenda pambuyo pa zaka 70
Mukakwanitsa zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri, mumakhala omasuka ku masoka, ndipo mutha kudzisamalira nokha. Izi si vuto lalikulu, koma muyenera kudziwa kuti mwakalamba kwambiri. Pang'onopang'ono, mphamvu zanu zakuthupi ndi mphamvu zanu zidzatha, ndipo zochita zanu zidzaipiraipira. Mukamadya, yendani pang'onopang'ono kuti musatsamwidwe, kugwa. Siyani kukhala wouma mtima kwambiri ndipo dzisamalireni!
Ena amasamaliranso m'badwo wachitatu kwa moyo wawo wonse. Yakwana nthawi yoti mukhale odzikonda komanso odzisamalira. Khalani omasuka pa chilichonse, thandizani kuyeretsa, ndipo khalani ndi thanzi labwino kwa nthawi yayitali momwe mungathere. Dzipatseni nthawi yochuluka momwe mungathere kuti mukhale nokha. Zidzakhala zosavuta kukhala popanda kupempha thandizo.
Gawo lachitatu: kudwala mutakwanitsa zaka 70
Iyi ndi nthawi yomaliza ya moyo ndipo palibe choopa. Ngati mwakonzekera pasadakhale, simudzadandaula kwambiri.
Lowani m'nyumba yosungira okalamba kapena gwiritsani ntchito munthu wina kuti azisamalira okalamba kunyumba. Nthawi zonse padzakhala njira yochitira izi momwe mungathere komanso momwe mungachitire. Mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti musalemetse ana anu kapena kuwonjezera mavuto ambiri kwa ana anu m'maganizo, pantchito zapakhomo, komanso pazachuma.
Gawo lachinayi: gawo lomaliza la moyo
Maganizo anu akakhala bwino, thupi lanu likuvutika ndi matenda osachiritsika, ndipo moyo wanu uli woipa kwambiri, muyenera kulimba mtima kukumana ndi imfa ndipo simukufuna kuti achibale anu akupulumutseninso, ndipo simukufuna kuti achibale ndi abwenzi aziwononga zinthu zosafunikira.
Kuchokera pamenepa tingaone, kodi anthu amayang'ana ndani akakalamba? Iye mwini, iyemwini, iyemwini.
Monga mwambi umati, "Ngati muli ndi kayendetsedwe ka ndalama, simudzakhala osauka, ngati muli ndi dongosolo, simudzakhala osokonezeka, ndipo ngati mwakonzeka, simudzakhala otanganidwa." Monga gulu lankhondo losungira okalamba, kodi ndife okonzeka? Bola mukakonzekera pasadakhale, simudzadandaula za moyo wanu muukalamba mtsogolo.
Tiyenera kudzidalira tokha kuti tithandizire ukalamba wathu ndi kunena mokweza kuti: Ine ndili ndi mawu omaliza mu ukalamba wanga!
Nthawi yotumizira: Mar-12-2024
